This is a quote I love from William Carlos Williams’s poem “The Botticellian Trees.”
And here is another quote I love written by my Tibetan friend, Shawo Choeten, after reading my memoir about traveling solo around the world.
“I hope all is well and your soul is swimming in an ocean of happiness.”
Seldom has anyone pinpointed so well the purpose of my travels, or the joy that still swims in my heart and soul as a result of these experiences. These words kept my spirits up last winter when unexpected illness came to my door, and they speak to me of new possibilities entering when old patterns have to be changed.
I do have sad news to relate about the death of a close friend and colleague many of you may have known from my days as Executive Director of MEH (Music Education for the Handicapped). Alf Gabrielsson, a professor of music psychology at Upssala University in Sweden, a member of our Board of Directors, and an outstanding presenter at several of our symposia, died of pneumonia on May 24th. He was a bright light wherever he went, a caring teacher of all ages, and a magnificent musician who could wow you with jazz on the piano or Bach on the organ. His books and his research into the effect of music on the human psyche and behavior were ground-breaking and their influence will remain immeasurable. Alf was also very interested in not only life in his community, but politics and opinion throughout the world as it affected our lives and the environment. You will not be forgotten, Alf.
The past three months of Whidbey Island sun and cool breezes have buoyed me up, and the summer peaked with new optimism for our country’s future. I start with a sample of our colorful plants and flowers that add zest to the endless year-round blanket of green that is surrounded by tall Douglas fir, hemlock, and cedar. We have dozens of succulents, orchids, fuchsias, and exotic plants nurtured by son, Tom, who I call the “plant whisperer,” as well as a plethora of blossoming trees gracing our walkways and forests. I am thoroughly enjoying the present and am deeply thankful. I particularly love the fortitude of the long-stemmed amaryllis.
One of my favorite activities is a daily walk through the beautifully landscaped Langley Woodmen Cemetery, conveniently located right across from Upper Langley, where I live. Halfway through my walk, I enjoy a sit on the bench built for the husband of a dear friend of mine. See if you can find me in the daisies, before I start pushing them up!
The 4th of July was a hoot and unlike any other I’ve experienced on the island.
All over Cascade Avenue were onlookers spellbound by the continuous display of drones instead of the usual fireworks. Stories were told in sequence, flower and Orcas flew through the sky, and bright-colored flags rippled in the wind. See the YouTube videos I made of them HERE and HERE.
Tom has converted my sunporch into an extra bedroom, so we’ve been able to welcome several family members for short visits, and, at the same time, help them escape the broiling sun of the city. Martha was the first to grace the sunporch.
Grandson Thomas Bixler also visited. He lives in Austin, Texas, and was really glad to get away from the heat, and be in the forest.
The Shakespeare Festival was in full swing. Here we are during intermission at King Lear, not exactly my idea of a happy story, but a very satisfying performance.
In between all the visits, we enjoyed Deception Pass, helping Cary in the garden, and a beer at Double Bluff Brewery where… heads up… I’ll be celebrating my 97th birthday next June!
Robert, my youngest, turned 65, much to his surprise, in September. I was surprised, too. Give me a break, Father Time. I can absorb just so much aging in one calendar year. I was still getting used to Cary having turned 72 in July!
Then, we welcomed Martha back and were totally surprised when she arrived with her son Adam, who took a break to visit me just before launching a new enterprise in New Jersey. How about that for fun?
A lot has been going on in the field of affordable housing. People are stepping up to the plate to help solve a very serious problem here on the island.
We know it’s pervasive throughout the rest of the country, but, like all problems, it works best if you start at home. When it comes to solving problems and making progress, Cary is the best example I know of citizen awareness and subsequent action. She’s done it with the environment, the cemetery, the food bank garden, the school farms, and many other projects since she moved to Whidbey. Check out this latest and one of the greatest!
It’s called Whidbey Home-Raising, and the website is HERE.
They started with the foundation dig out in September, and are now working on the framing.
I apologize for the length of this blog, but you didn’t expect me to sit in the house during the summer and write when the sun was shining and the woods were beckoning…did you? Ha ha. Remember, we island folk have to soak up our good weather when we get it. Fall is fast approaching and the winter winds are just around the corner knocking at our door. So bundle up, don’t mess with those Halloween witches, and have a spectacular Thanksgiving. And don’t forget to vote!
Jerene
As usual Meg fabulous Writing. And so interesting to read Of your most active life!
Ruth Abel
Hi Meg,
You and your family don’t let any grass grow under your feet! How wonderful that you can be so active with them .Your blogs are always interesting and I love to see the flowers and all Tom ‘s handiwork and all that Carty does to make things happen. It seems that she is the engine of the whole community.
I’m enjoying your memoir, bits and pieces at a time. I now hjave a better picture of what makes Robert tick! He and Gwen have a tiger by the tail it seems, but then I’m not surprised. sTa. ke care. Best….Ruth
Heidi Jefferson
I am so happy to receive your summer news full of joy and light. You are like me enjoying the special moments in life and most of all the people who share it with you. I was woken up this morning by loud praying and singing from the Baptist congregation next door here in Kisumu, Kenya, but can you complain when there is so much heartfelt praying going on? We all need it and your stories are like a thank you and Amen for all the blessings we receive through nature, our friends and family members! Keep the joy and gratitude in your ♥️
Wendy
All the best to you, Meg! So wonderful to read your posts. You have a great camera.
mully
great blog Meg….I enjoyed it all! love, mully
Tamara
I didn’t know about the drone replacement of fireworks. Perhaps in another 7 to 10 years we will have it here in Maine. Thanks for sharing those.
As usual you are beautiful – looks like you are aging backwards- so glad you are having great times.
Martha Peterson
We had some really fun visits during the summer, didn’t we? I look forward to getting out there for Christmas, though it won’t be as sunny and beautiful then as it was in August.
Great photos and even better memories. Thanks, Mom!
Lynn Rubright
Spectacular blog of goings on on Whidbey Island. Photos great…. And pix of Carys terrific work building a house and her many community projects inspirational. And great to see the boys who were little guys in New Jersey – all grown and involved in their professions. Meg’s smiley face among the daisies a joy. Forgive me, Megs, but this blog as enriching for me as one of you traipsing up mountains in Nepal. Keep writing!! Much love, Lynn