Meg Noble Peterson

Author of Madam, Have You Ever Really Been Happy? An Intimate Journey through Africa and Asia

I JUST HAD TO VISIT LAKE WINNIPESAUKEE ONE MORE TIME!

Waves crashing into the breakwater

Waves crashing into the breakwater

…And now I can put the summer to rest. There is a magnetic pull exerted by this vast, untamed lake and the “Noble Cottage,” our family haven for over fifty years, so when I find a few days of Indian Summer I cannot resist one last visit. Well, the days were warm and sunny last week, but the nights were anything but! Try thirty degrees. I made a quick trip to the Franconia Range for a visit with Anne and Frank Magill, my wonderful sister and brother-in-law, who were celebrating 57 years of marriage, before returning to a three-day-blow on the lake, with ocean-sized waves and water to rival the North Atlantic in winter. No matter. Swimming is what I wanted to do, and I got my fill.

Just before sunset...

Just before sunset…

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I always love to watch the movement of the sunset from its place directly in front of the cottage in June to its new position way over to the left of our dock in September. And there is a light just before it sets that speaks to me in tones of white and yellow, the mysterious light of impending winter.

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Now the day is over...

Now the day is over…

AND NOW, BACK TO THE REAL WORLD!

 

 After three glorious weeks in New Hampshire and three more in the Northwest (Seattle, Whidbey Island, and the Northern Cascade Mountains), I returned to the reality that I had more to deal with than the hundreds of backed-up emails (Will I never learn to post that vacation message?). A new year beginning (I always think of September as the new year, since that is when the kids returned to school after the summer), several book ideas fighting for dominance, and the sober facts of national and international conflict that have changed very little during my NYTimes hiatus. I loved being away, but now it’s back to work . I began with a speech at the South Orange Rotary Club last Thursday, to a group of responsive business leaders, who responded with enthusiasm to my subject, “Traveling off the Beaten Path,” and showed great interest in the orphanage project in Zimbabwe I’ve written about in this blog. I also told them about the Tibetan Childrens’ Villages (TCV) I had visited and help support in India. Thank you, President Stacey Borden for the wonderful reception. Please write me if you want any more information about these two important projects. My grandson, Adam, has been working hard on a prospectus to help raise money for the orphanage, spurred on by the encouragement of Greg Mortenson, whom he met last spring.

 

I’ve been told to write my blog more often and keep it short! I get the message. I’ll be posting photos of my summer trips next week. In the meantime, let’s hear about your summer adventures!

OLD MAN NOAH HAS COME AND GONE AND IT’S FINALLY SPRING IN NEW JERSEY.

 Would you believe that a month ago we were drowning and now, in the middle of summer, we’re having the spring we never had? I’m beginning to think that we’re competing with Seattle to see who can have the strangest weather year. But who’s complaining? I’m glad for the cool breezes and mild sunshine. Overjoyed, in fact. 

Speaking of Seattle, my daughter, Cary, is having a banner year creating, with the help of 160 volunteers, a gigantic garden on Whidbey Island, the Good Cheer Garden, which supplies the Food Bank with much-needed produce. Gardening is, once again, seen as an important part of our country’s economic life as well as a great social and community enterprise. And then, there are those delicious, healthy fresh vegetables! I recommend that you take a look at her website, www.goodcheergarden.wordpress.com  This has become a major project in the life of South Whidbey, WA.

 In June Mike Fenton, Autoharp player extraordinaire, and his lovely wife, Rachel, visited me from England on their way to the Mt. Laurel Autoharp Gathering. They surprised me by taking me to the fabulous Billy Elliot on Broadway. It is every bit as great a musical as the Tony Awards proclaimed, and a must-see for those visiting New York City. 

Another great Autoharp player visited me this week. He’s the other Will Smith and hails from Nashville, TN. Here he is playing his new Tom Fladmark Autoharp, which he designed and fitted with the most beautiful and unusual chord combinations I have ever heard. I was enthralled by his playing and can’t wait to hear his latest album. IMG_5660My traveling and hiking have been greatly curtailed because of a stupid accident (are there any smart ones?) in which I tore the meniscus in my left knee. It wasn’t serious, but it needed repair. So at the end of June, during my recuperation from laparoscopic surgery, I spent a glorious week with my two sisters at our cottage on Lake Winnipesaukee in New Hampshire. It was perfect…if you like rain. And the water temperature would have thrilled a polar bear. Not being polar bears, we waited for our meager three days of sunshine to brave the icy waves. Here are some pictures of the cottage at sunset.

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Upon returning to Maplewood in July I was treated to a once-a-year rock concert extravaganza, Maplewoodstock, conceived and organized by my son-in-law, Gary Shippy. This two-day celebration of local and national bands is in its sixth year and draws an enormous crowd from Maplewood and South Orange. Families gather on the grassy hill near the railroad station to mingle, visit folk art booths, and delight in being with old friends. Children dance to the music and play on the lawn, while adults engage in an all-day picnic, which continues late into the night. This year we were treated to such headliners as Marshall Crenshaw and Jonathan Edwards. And the weather cooperated by holding the rain until the moment the last note was played. This is just another good reason to live in this friendly, alive community.

 Tomorrow I leave for another three weeks at the Winnipesaukee cottage, where my family and friends will gather for swimming, kayaking, and hiking in the White Mountains. After that I head for the great northwest, Whidbey Island, and the northern Cascades. I shall write about these adventures next month. In the meantime, do look at my latest photos mentioned at the bottom of the home page in red ink. Like most people who use digital cameras, I’m way behind in my postings. There are just too many pictures. And who’s to blame for that? I’m afraid we’re all the same!

 While in Seattle, I’m looking forward to seeing my friend, Beth Whitman, writer, most recently, of For Women Traveling in India, and a peripatetic traveler (www.WanderlustAndLipstick.com). I had also hoped to see Rita Golden Gelman (www.ritagoldengelman.com), whom I have admired since I read her book, Tales of a Female Nomad. She is a true nomad. I now discover that she won’t be there at the end of August, but urge you to look at her website and read about her new program, Let’s Get Global, for the “gap year and more” movement she has started. This is a program after my own heart, introducing young people to the joys of travel and of really getting to know other cultures.

LILACS, MAGNOLIAS, WILD ROSES, DOGWOOD, and GRASS THAT WILL NOT STOP GROWING. AH, THE JOYS OF SPRING….

 I am always entranced by the awakening of the earth, which for so many months has lain dormant. Birds return to my holly trees, ferns turn bright green and spread, gracefully, along my back fence, and the carefully tended gardens in the neighborhood afford me color and delicate aromas as I take my morning walk up and down the hills of Maplewood. The azaleas have just passed and the rhododendron, with its plump round flowers, has arrived in various shades of purple. I am carried back to Lukla, when I returned from Everest Base Camp, and wandered through a forest of deep red rhododendron, so miraculous in their beauty after leaving the bitter cold of high altitude. I never take this abundant new life for granted. 

Many of you travelers struggle with the same frustration I have in selecting and cataloguing the huge number of photographs produced by digital cameras. True, it’s our fault. We could just press delete. But we don’t. And then there is the desire to crop, tune, and retouch each scene to perfection (in my case the vast mountain panoramas and ancient living quarters) before moving them to albums that can be enjoyed by friends and family. And so, the saga of my efforts to upload photographs continues with incremental learning spurts that keep me ever-optimistic and eager to share. I hope many of you have seen the five albums I placed on facebook.  For the refreshed links, look at my April 4th blog. I am now, however, putting new albums on my home page. I have put the photos of Myanmar and Dharamsala on hold and am starting in on Ladakh and Tanzania, my most recent trips. Consistency has never held me back, but I do ask your patience. I also would like your feedback on my newest photo galleries. The link is written in large red print at the bottom of my home page. Be sure to click on each photo to enlarge, and read the captions as the adventure unfolds. More are coming! 

I go to New York City a great deal, sometimes with friends, and sometimes alone. The city never ceases to amaze and tickle me. When alone I could be walking up a street in Asia, listening to languages as diverse as the faces that accompany them, and enjoying the varied garb of a cultural potpourri. If I were in another country, I’d be putting down the names of the quaint stores along the way and recording the shouts of the vendors as they ply their trade…and the conversations overheard on cell phones or in the small groups that wander with me up Eighth Avenue from Penn Station to Midtown. I see the usual brand of tourist, gawking at high buildings that are commonplace to me, and, most recently, enjoying the people lounging in chairs on the new pedestrian mall in Times Square. It’s a scream! Not only can you sit on bleachers near the TKTS booth at 47th and Broadway and eat your lunch or just people-watch, but you can also lie on your webbed chair and breathe in the exhaust fumes from the traffic on Broadway, while looking at a most unappealing bunch of stores on either side of the street. No trees—just pavement all around, and tourists taking your picture. Does that sound a bit bizarre to you? Only in America! 

I’ve played my fill of concerts for the year and attended some stirring performances at Carnegie and Avery Fisher Halls. Alice Tully Hall has been refurbished and all of Lincoln Center is getting a needed facelift for its 50th anniversary. Come see it, if only to enjoy spring at one of New York City’s most beautiful spots. 

I don’t want to disappoint my theater-addicted friends, so I shall end with a list of some of the wonderful plays I’ve attended this past month. My friend, Barry Hamilton, artistic director of Ruth Eckherdt Hall in St. Petersburg and his lovely wife, Ruth Klukoff, a violin teacher, attended my granddaughter Cally’s graduation party, following her graduation, Phi Beta Kappa, from Rutgers. Barry took me to God of Carnage on Broadway, the best comedy I’ve seen since August: Osage County. It was the beginning of my birthday week celebration. Phyllis Bitow, another theater buddy took me to Next to Normal, a very thoughtful, unusual musical, starring Alice Ripley. Other shows worthy of mention are: the Pulitzer prize winning Ruined by Lynn Nottage, a heart-breaking story of the treatment of women in the Congo; Eugene O’Neill’s powerful Desire Under the Elms with Brian Dennehy; Groundswell, Off-Broadway, a moving post-apartheid story from South Africa with Larry Bryggman; Blithe Spirit by Noel Coward, starring the incomparable Angela Lansbury and Christine Ebersole; Accent on Youth, a rather disappointing comedy with David Hyde Pierce; Joe Turner’s Come and Gone by August Wilson, a deeply moving production of the black experience in the first decade of the twentieth century; Waiting for Godot by Samuel Beckett—a superb revival starring Nathan Lane, Bill Irwin, John Goodman, and John  Glover; Why Torture is Wrong and the People Who Love It by Christopher Durang, at the Public Theater; and the screamingly funny trilogy from England, The Norman Conquests by Alan Ackbourn—Table Manners, Living Together, and Round and Round the Garden.  Don’t miss all three if you get to town. I thank Play-by-Play and Audience Extras for my luck in getting inexpensive tickets for most of these productions. 

I started hiking a little late this season, and on my first outing managed to get thoroughly lost wandering the hills of South Mountain Reservation. I’m not good at reading maps, but could sure have used one today! It’s so nice to spend a balmy, sunny afternoon in the woods after all the rain we’ve had. Think of it…in one month I’ll be in the White Mountains. 

Please let me hear from you. I want to know what you’re doing, how you’re doing, and any adventures you want to share.

I’VE JUST HAD AN INSPIRING WEEKEND IN UPSTATE NEW YORK….

Bright and early Easter morning, my daughter, Martha, and I hopped into the car and headed for Syracuse, NY, to show her son, my youngest grandson, Adam, Syracuse University. We visited Henricks Chapel, showed Adam the Noble Room, named for my father, and visited the Dean’s office. Unfortunately, most of the buildings were closed, but we walked around, or were blown around the campus (it was cold and windy!), accompanied by the well-known artist, Scott Bennett (www.scottbennettart.com), and his daughter, Sarah. In the evening we arrived in Troy at the home of an Emma Willard classmate of mine, Nina Pattison, and spent a lovely night in her fabulous Victorian home not far from RPI and Russell Sage College. The next morning we were privileged to hear Greg Mortenson, author of Three Cups of Tea, speak to an audience filled with eager Emma Willard and RPI students and alumnae.

 

Many of you have read Greg’s book and are aware that his non-profit organization, Central Asia Institute, has already been instrumental in building 78 schools for children (mostly girls) in Pakistan and Afghanistan. His aim has been to build peace, one school at a time, thus breaking down barriers between cultures, and changing the world for the better. A lofty goal, which is being achieved by the hard work and dedication of thousands of people—people who are fed up with violence and know that a better future for their children starts with education.

 

This has not been an easy task, and is still fraught with danger in places mired in political upheaval, war, and poverty. But, Mortenson’s willingness to talk about things like hope, love, and compassion in a nonsectarian way is refreshing and appeals to people who are hungry for peace and nonviolent solutions to complex international problems. He has empowered these people to create their own solutions, giving them help along the way. I was especially moved when he said, “Don’t try to be like me. Listen to your heart. And when your heart speaks, take good notes. This will lead you in the direction of your own goals.”

 

Recently, Greg has talked with the military commanders who are in charge of the war in Asia and the Middle East. General Petraeus, who read his book, told Mortenson that it made him realize the importance of listening, of building relationships with the people and their communities, and of learning to respect and understand their culture. Greg’s book is now required reading for every person, from combat troops to government officials, who is deployed to Afghanistan. It says to me that our government and military are listening as well.

 

At the beginning of his remarks, Mortenson asked how many students talked to their grandparents, or an older relative, listened to their stories about growing up, and asked what traditions were treasured when they were young. He stressed the Importance of listening to your elders, learning from their experience, and, in turn, building a relationship that engendered respect between the generations.

 

Adam has been inspired by Greg’s work, especially the Pennies for Peace program started by his daughter. When Martha and I returned from Africa and told him about the Tamiha Orphanage we had visited in Tanzania, that is now caring for 100 orphans, Adam immediately started making plans to help the director, Crispen Mugarula, raise money for his new school. He put together a prospectus and handed it to Greg, who accepted it and told Adam to be in touch by email. During his presentation Greg had told the students to come up with their own projects to raise money for schools, and said that he is hoping for the establishment of an internet portal at which many organizations promoting peace through education can exchange ideas and find funding. His work is in Central Asia, but he encourages projects that lift up and educate people in all parts of the world, especially girls and women. As he said, “You educate a man, and you have one educated person. You educate a woman, and you educate a whole community.”

 

You may also know that Greg has been nominated for a Nobel Prize. I cannot imagine anyone who is doing more at this crucial time in history to promote peace through education than this man.

 

My theater report this month includes four excellent productions: Neil LaBute’s Reasons to Be Pretty; a revival of The Master Class; Michael Laurence in Krapp 39; and the amazing Janet McTeer in Mary Stuart.

 

SPRING IS HERE, THEN IT’S NOT, THEN IT IS…WHAT’S GOING ON?

Hiking in Harriman Park

Hiking in Harriman Park

The entrance to Thendara Camp

The entrance to Thendara Camp

I’m not a weather-watcher, but I can stand the capriciousness of April just so long. Two weeks ago I took a great seven-mile hike in Harriman State Park, about an hour drive from my house, and we were in shirt sleeves. Now I’m back in polypro. Think I’ll leave the weather stripping on the windows and doors a bit longer. And the lawn furniture in the garage.

The weekend at Harriman was spent with a group of hikers at Thendara Camp, a rustic cabin near Lake Tiorati on Seven Lakes Drive. Each week there are different hosts who take turns with meals and opening and closing the camp. This week it was Alan and Cathy Gordon, and the atmosphere was warm and friendly. The small lake close to the cabin was a bit too cold even for me, but it was great to get back into the woods, again. We crisscrossed the Appalachian Trail and several local trails, and climbed to splendid views of the Letterback and Hasenclever Mountains, ending up for lunch near a charming old family burial ground circa 1850. It was peaceful, utterly quiet, and somewhat ghostly. I love it just before the end of the winter when you can see the hills more closely through the leafless trees.

After lunch we explored Hasenclever, one of the old iron mines, where ore was dug to make the material for cannonballs during the Revolution. These are dotted everywhere in Harriman and it’s fascinating to see the dark water filling the giant caverns in the earth, and the huge boulders left by the excavation.

I finally taught myself how to upload videos to YouTube. Below is the link. Just click on it. I promise there will be more from my Tanzanian trip in the future. You may notice by the beginning remarks that I was quite a neophyte as I attempted to tape the porters singing and dancing at Lava Tower Camp on Mt. Kilimanjaro. The quality is vastly inferior to the original, due to the size that YouTube can handle, but the spirit of the song is there. Hope you like it.

Here is a video interview with Suzanne Roberts that was made last spring just before l left for two months in Ladakh, India. They filmed for three hours and came up with five minutes. You can imagine how condensed that one was! But at least there were those who found it inspirational that such an ancient creature went to so many challenging places.

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Several people have asked me to refresh the links to my facebook photo albums—pictures of my first two weeks in Myanmar. I didn’t realize that they expire after about six months. Facebook “friends” can get them anytime by looking at my profile, but, otherwise, just click on the links below or cut and paste them into your internet address bar. I can’t seem to find the sixth album, but here are the first five.

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In conclusion, my big opera event at the Met for the month was a double bill: Cavalleria Rusticana and Pagliacci. The tenor Jose Cura was the lead in both and is now my favorite post-Pavarotti tenor. Watch for him. He’s terrific…and handsome, too!

Singing Porters on Mt. Kilimanjaro

I finally taught myself how to upload videos to YouTube. You may notice by the beginning remarks that I was quite a neophyte as I attempted to tape the porters singing and dancing at Lava Tower Camp on Mt. Kilimanjaro. The quality is vastly inferior to the original, due to the size that YouTube can handle, but the spirit of the song is there. Hope you like it.

HOW COULD WE GET THROUGH THE WINTER DOLDRUMS WITHOUT OUR CHILDREN, NO MATTER WHAT THEIR AGE?

As I take my daily three-mile walk up and down the frozen, often-icy hills of Maplewood, NJ (don’t laugh, it snowed last night), I think of my sons in balmy Los Angeles, who, despite the state of the economy, are starting new businesses and artistic endeavors with enthusiasm; of my daughter, Cary, who is heading two garden projects on Whidbey Island, one to supply healthy, organic food for the island community through the Good Cheer Food Bank, www.goodcheergarden.wordpress.com and the other to maintain an extensive garden for Whidbey Institute; and Martha, who has just written a book to be published by Barnes & Noble about her work alleviating pain through Hanna Somatics, www.essentialsomatics.com. And there’s more to raise our spirits if we just open our eyes and forget the gray skies. Michelle Obama has been vocal in promoting healthy living and eating, and, I hope, like Eleanor Roosevelt, she’ll turn part of the 17 acres around the White House into an organic vegetable garden. There’s definitely a movement afoot to get people and whole communities to start thinking in terms of a local food supply. Guess what? Just after I wrote that last sentence I opened today’s NYTimes and found a long front page article about the garden Michelle is planning for the south lawn. Google it if you get a chance.

 

Many other encouraging signs of the indomitable American spirit have jumped out at me this winter and tell me that the older you get the more intense is your desire to make each day count and live your remaining years engaged in enterprises that make a difference in the lives of others. Some of you may have seen David Brancaccio’s NOW last December 19th about the slavery of young girls in Nepal (www.PBS.org Daughters for Sale) in which an 83-year-old retired lawyer, Olga Murray from California, saved thousands of young girls from being sold into slavery through a program that entailed giving each family a pig or a goat, which would bring as much money at the end of the year as their daughter’s wages. It’s an amazing story, starting from a simple idea. But nobody else had thought of it. And once the children are returned to their families, they are given an education, all for about $50.  Google Olga Murray and you’ll find ample information about her work.

 

 

Another dynamic woman in her 80’s, who is presently working in Vietnam to help orphans, is Betty Tisdale, www.bettytisdale.com, who started the organization H.A.L.O. (Helping And Loving Orphans) and continues with her extensive travels to find and care for children at risk. She has already helped thousands of children in Vietnam, Afghanistan, Colombia, and Mexico. Look her up on the web and be inspired.

 

 

I just found out about Muriel Johnston, 84, who left for 27 months in the Peace Corps on March 2nd. She will be stationed in Morocco and begins with a three-month training period, living with a Moroccan family and learning Berber through total immersion. She will be working with mothers and children in a health care setting, something she is well-suited for, having raised six children and volunteered for years in a local hospital nursery. She’s scheduled to return to the U.S. in May of 2011. Muriel has traveled on a “shoestring” to over 30 different countries, often solo. She goes by caravan and horseback, and sometimes camps out or in hostels. But always, she says, off the “gringo trail.” The bulk of her travel took place after the age of 65. What a great example for all you baby boomers!

 

 

During this period in my life, while I’m taking a hiatus from travel and cleaning out my cellar and attic, trying to make sense of accumulated photos and memorabilia from the last 50 years, I’ve enjoyed traveling by DVD with a young French couple, Alexandre and Sonia Poussin, who walked 14,000 kilometers through eleven countries, and stayed with 1200 families in the part of Africa that is called the Cradle of Life. Their journey began at the Cape of Good Hope and ended, three years later, at the Sea of Galilee. This unusual adventure, available on three DVDs, can be found on www.africatrek.com I was especially excited to see so much of the Africa I remembered from twenty-two years ago and which is detailed in my book, Madam, Have You Ever Really Been Happy? They even photographed their climb up Mt. Kilimanjaro, making me more determined than ever to return and experience the summit. Thanks go to my good friend, Paul Sharar, for introducing me to this excellent travelogue.

 

 

I’ve just received a glowing report about hiking in Japan from an old friend, Terry Rollins, whom I met in 1996 on the Kangchenjunga trek in Nepal. He’s an avid trekker and one of his last big trips was in Pakistan. Believe me, that’s daunting! While teaching ESL near Yokohama, he hooked up with the Friends of the Earth Japan, a hiking group that usually meets on Sundays near Tokyo. Tokyo is bounded to the west by mountains, so hiking has become one of the activities of choice, especially for the growing retiree class. And many trail heads are easily accessible via the extensive train network and bus system. The group asks for a 1,000 yen donation for each hike (about $10), but it’s worth it. For those of you contemplating a visit to Japan, you can look up FOE Japan and click on the events tab for information on their hikes. If you’re not into hiking, you can always take up gateball, which is equally popular with retirees. Kind of like croquet, but uniquely Japanese.

 

 

Mt. Takao National Park is the area closest to Tokyo. It’s a three minute walk from the train to multiple trail heads. But since the greater Tokyo metropolitan area is home to 35 million people, the trails can be packed beyond belief, especially on special weekends. It takes a little looking, Terry says, but he has managed to find other trails that are delightfully deserted, equally scenic, and unique.

 

 

In conclusion, let me bring you up to date, briefly, on my cultural activities. Thanks to my violinist niece, Margaret Magill, I was able to see the final dress rehearsal of Bellini’s Sonnambula with the versatile soprano Natalie Dessay and tenor Diego Florez.

And thanks to percussionists Al Jorgensen and Phyllis Bitow, I was able to see a stunning performance by Renee Fleming in Dvorak’s Rusalka. Not only was the singing flawless, but the music divine. This was my first Dvorak opera. Both operas were at the Met.


The plays I’ve attended include: Becky Shaw: The Story of My Life: Mrs. Warren’s Profession; Lynn Redgrave in The Importance of Being Earnest; 33 Variations with Jane Fonda; a magnificent revival of Chekhov’s The Cherry Orchard at BAM; The Shanghai Quartet; The Paul Taylor Dancers; Ionesco’s Exit The King with Goeffrey Rush And Susan Sarandon; and Brian Friel’s The Aristocrats at my favorite theater, The Irish Repertory. Of course, symphony concerts continue until the middle of May at Plainfield, NJ.


Several of you have asked about my photos. Aside from the75 that are on the home page of my website under photo gallery, there are others on this blog under the heading online photo albums. Unfortunately, I’ve only had time to post six albums on facebook. They tell of the first two weeks of my trip in Myanmar. I truly hope to add recent pictures of Ladakh and Africa, soon, and appreciate your patience.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

HOW CRAZY CAN YOU BE?

 

I love to travel, but who in her right mind would leave New Jersey at 6 A.M. on a Saturday morning, drive four hours to see a two-hour basketball game between Syracuse University and Notre Dame, and drive four hours back in the same day? And then go to dinner and the movies with the excess energy accrued from sitting all day. Well, you may not think that subzero Syracuse is an exotic destination at this time of year, but my erstwhile son-in-law, Gary Shippy, will go anywhere (within reason) to see his Alma Mater play. And he decided the night before that this would be a blast. He also knew that when I was a student at Syracuse, I was an avid basketball fan. Unfortunately, his Alma Mater is Notre Dame (only unfortunate because of the score), but he is a courageous sort and had me run interference when he walked in amidst 30,000 yelling Syracuse fans, dressed in his blue and yellow Notre Dame jacket. Fair enough. We had a ball! And I love spontaneity. There I was, winding through the Cherry Valley on a sunny winter morning, reminiscing about those bygone days at the university and thoroughly enjoying the beauty of upstate New York, its bare trees silhouetted like lace against the almost white sky, and neat farms and snow-covered barns standing as a reminder of the old dairy farms, the smoke from wood fires curling from their chimneys.  Talk about a return to childhood….

 

Then, too, it was wonderful to walk on campus, admire the new buildings, groove on the old ones, visit my father’s office at Hendrick’s Chapel, and see the sanctuary where I was married so many years ago.

 

An added note of clarification to those of you who are having trouble fully retrieving the archived entries from past months and years. Go to Archives on the right side, click on the date you want, and when the first part of the text comes up, click, again, on the TITLE of the entry. Magically (or so it seems to me), the entire blog will appear. And don’t forget to click on the January entry, which describes my three weeks in Tanzania and Kenya.

 

This is the shortest blog entry of my life. Saints preserve us! And a Happy New Year to you all!!

We climbed Mt. Kilimanjaro…but

we didn’t get to the summit. As you can imagine, this came as a big surprise, because both my daughter, Martha, and I felt great as we were climbing pole pole (slowly, as instructed by our head guide, Clemence Mtui) through the lush rain forest and the moorland (alpine desert), and across the Shira Plateau. The scenery was beautiful, almost mystical, and we puttered along enjoying the companionship of our two guides, who explained in detail the various trees and plants—all new to us—and the numerous species of monkeys and unusual birds, exquisite varieties of protea, and tropical vegetation such as African pencil cedar, potent wild spice plants, and the furry giant groundsels with their saucy cap of vegetation. During our first day slogging up the muddy trail in the rain forest, we were especially careful of the ants that marched across our path. In a nanosecond they could attach themselves to a pant leg and cause havoc. Ants in your pants became very real to all of us!  

 

We spent our first night in Big Tree campsite (mti mkubwa in Swahili) all by ourselves (one of the beauties of the trip was the solitude we experienced on this route, the Lemosho). The food was mostly Chagga, which we had experienced in our four days of visiting villages in and around Marangu prior to the climb, and it was fabulous—heavy on the fresh veggies, with chicken and stuffed pastas for variety. And the chicken soup was to die for! I had never tasted such perfect distillation of pure chicken flavor in my life. Chagga remained our favorite cuisine throughout our time in Tanzania.

 

On our second day climbing through the alpine forest we found an unusual anthill built high up in an acacia tree from bits of elephant dung carried up the mountain by these miniscule insects. The nest was a large gray pockmarked ball, which housed these tiny stinging ants that bothered the giraffe and kept it from eating the leaves of the tree. But who ever saw a giraffe at 12,000 ft.? The ants lay dormant, but to activate them you poked the ball with your stick and they swarmed out by the billions.

 

It wasn’t until our second campsite, Shira I, that we saw our first views of Kilimanjaro, its remaining glaciers glowing salmon-red in the sunset and iridescent in the night. It was cold and clear, a silent sky alive with stars and constellations.

 

The conversation was always lively as we trekked. Like everyone else we met on our three weeks in Africa, our guides were eager to talk about the American election and the political and economic problems so prevalent in Africa and the world. Seemed almost out of place, like interjecting a totally incongruent reality into other-worldly, untouched nature, as we made our way up the vast mountain. We also discovered that our guide had worked with Scott Fisher (an amazing climber who had conquered both Everest and K2), for four years during the time he was leading treks up Kilimanjaro. Mtui was devastated over his untimely death on the illfated trip up Mt. Everest in May 1996, the worst tragedy ever recorded on the mountain. He had been with him on the trip up Kilimanjaro that Scott led to commemorate the 50th anniversary to the founding of the CARE organization.

 

Our third day ended after six hours, with the usual tea, hot milk or chocolate, honey, and popcorn in our tent. All seemed to be well as we wandered around Shira II campsite, which resembled the moon, a prelude to the landscape of lava rocks ahead. Martha felt great until she lay down. Throughout the night she became more nauseated and Mtui was sure it was altitude. It seemed impossible, because her breathing was fine and her body felt strong. We both had had no altitude problems, but found it difficult to sleep. We thought it was probably because of the noisy colobus and blue (sykes) monkeys scampering around the tent. This night, however, was different, and by morning it was obvious that Martha needed to descend.

 

We were both devastated, but had agreed, beforehand, that if one of us had to go down, the other would continue. After eating breakfast under the shadow of Kili in the early morning sun, accompanied by tiny, mischievous birds who stole every crumb they could find, I continued up the mountain, but with a heavy heart.

 

On day four the rain finally came, but it was gentle and rather relaxing. Fog hung over the mountain, matching my gloom at having to continue alone.

There were exotic formations formed by huge boulders on the crest of each hill, and sharp black rocks dotting the landscape, a reminder of the great eruption 1700 years before. I liked the trail, because it became steeper and had sections of large rocks reminiscent of Mt. Washington.

 

 

After nine hours we arrived at Lava Towers and in front of me was a clear picture of the steep trail leading to the summit, winding around the glaciers. Only two more days. I could hardly wait!

 

Just before supper I leaned over to fix my sleeping bag, and a huge orange triangle appeared in my left eye. I closed it. I opened it. The triangle remained. Then I remembered medicine for a thickened cornea that I was supposed to have been using that day. In my upset about Martha I had forgotten. As soon as I put it in my eye the triangle went away. But the eye felt heavy and definitely not normal.

 

Mtui came to my tent, looking very glum. “I need to talk with you, Meg. Seriously. I’ve been noticing your eyes all day. They don’t look right.”

 

Now I was really freaking! He had come to the same conclusion independently. But I, in my panic, had told him that I had a retina problem, not a simple corneal anomaly. So Mtui, in his attempt to calm me, told me a couple of horror stories about people who had caused permanent damage to their eyes by the pressure of high altitude. It had nothing to do with stamina or breathing. That was enough! I now know, in retrospect, that if Martha and I had taken diamox for altitude this wouldn’t have happened. This was hubris on my part, since I never liked the way the medicine made me feel and felt that I had done enough high altitude climbing to know my body. No time to look back or assign blame. My desire to reach the top could not compare to my fear of jeopardizing my sight. It was decided.

 

The next morning, still feeling fine, but worried about my eye, I wandered around the campsite, enjoying the bright sun that obliterated Kili’s summit by 9 A.M., and taking photos of the immense rock that gave Lava Tower its name. I had been listening for four days to the singing of the porters, so I gathered them together and took a video of all of them and Mtui lined up in front of the tower, singing “Kilimanjaro” and dancing. The harmony was vintage Africa and the dancing loose and rhythmical. It’s my favorite video of the trip and I’ll let you know when I put it on YouTube.

 

We started down. The small rivers flowing from the glaciers had frozen solid overnight and there was frost on the high desert. All I could think of as I raced down a trail that took me nine hours to climb and only three hours to descend, was the story of one of my heroes, Greg Mortensen (Three Cups of Tea), who didn’t make it to the top of K-2, but, instead, ended up living in a village in Pakistan and getting to know the people, which resulted in the building of a dozen schools for young girls. In a word, he changed the lives of hundreds, and, ultimately, thousands of people by that little twist of fate. And as Martha and I were pondering our “failure,” it soon became evident that by missing our intended goal we had given ourselves four days of the most wonderful experiences in Arusha, which we would never have had if we’d spent those days on the mountain. Our egos were a little bruised, because it seemed like such an easy climb compared to the rugged terrain of New Hampshire’s White Mountains or the Rockies, but the time we spent together was a far deeper and a more meaningful “summit” experience—getting to know people doing positive outreach projects, which make a difference in the lives of those living in and around Arusha.

 

Elizabeth Hudgins, who co-owns Nature’s Gift Safaris, introduced us to ex-pats from many countries working in Africa. Dr. Sheila Devanne, a lively and dedicated Irish nun, directs the Arusha Mental Health Trust and counseling center. To use her words, “We were founded with the assistance of The Medical Missionaries of Mary, and are supported by “the widow’s mite.” Their website is: www.mmmworldwide.org. Trauma is a huge problem in Africa, whether mental or psychological, but it is not as popular a charity as AIDS, so this understaffed and struggling hospital needs all the help it can get. We were fortunate to attend the dedication of a new hospital, the Arusha Lutheran Medical Centre, built for $10 million, which was raised by Doctor Mark Jacobsen, the hospital director, who has lived and worked in Arusha for over twenty years. Not only doctors and architects, but also artisans, facilitators, and fund raisers and their wives were honored in an outpouring of gratitude from the community.

 

We had a chance to talk with people from around the world who were responsible for starting schools (such as the one Greg Mortensen’s mother started in Moshe), and are now teaching alongside their Africa colleagues in such places as the MaaSae  Girls Lutheran Secondary School in Monduli/Arusha (there are many different spellings for the word Maasai). We visited this school and were escorted around by an American couple, Jean Wahlstrom and Marvin Kananen, whom we had met at the hospital dedication. They live in one of three small round faculty houses and teach at the school for young Masaii girls, many of whom were taken from their families to keep them from being married at 12. These are two people who really care for the girls and are giving them a future they could never have had otherwise. This school, with its modest coffee plantation and beautiful buildings, is supported by the Minnesota-based charity, Operation Bootstrap Africa.

 

Of all the places we visited, the one that touched us the most was the Tamiha Orphanage started by Crispin Mugarula, himself an orphan, who was able to get an education, become a teacher, and start his own care center. There are about thirty children, eight of whom have AIDS. These eight stay at the school all night. Crispen has found homes for the others during the evening, since he realizes their need for a family setting, but he makes sure that they are fed three meals and given a healthy supplement (ugi, made of millet, corn, and water) during the day. I have never seen such bright, eager children. And the eldest was four! They sang for us, and recited  the alphabet, and numbers. There were swings, a small garden for fresh vegetables, and a shed with animals for the children. A teacher and two assistants (university students from the U.S.) taught at the center. Crispin plans to start a primary school so the little ones, who have come so far already, can continue their education and won’t have to go to state schools. This is a dream that is very real. Please write to me if you want any more information. I urge you to visit the website at www.tamiha.org

 

Kenya and Tanzania have over 100 tribes and there are numerous clans within each tribe. For example, both David and Clemence are part of the Mtui clan within the Chagga tribe. They speak their own special language, plus Swahili, the national language, plus English. And most of us have trouble with one! But a great many people we met do not want to be mistaken for Masaai. There are several groups that have broken away over disputes and they always preface their remarks to us with, “I’m not a Maasai, you understand.” I think it’s because of the tribe’s lack of interest in education, the treatment of women, and the poor standards of hygiene and health that have led to these criticisms. But these are generalizations and we did meet two very enjoyable watchmen at the Everest Inn in Arusha, with whom we had very informative chats. One, Sai Toi Ti, showed us techniques for killing lions (something neither of us expect to use!), which include the deft use of large knives and some clever dancing to distract the animals. This was hilarious and is among our best videos.

 

No trip to Arusha is complete without a visit to the local Meru Market, where craftsmen from the area sell Masaii beaded handcrafts and carvings made of ebony and rosewood. This we did the day before leaving for our safari, which began at the Tarangire National Park. It will be difficult, but I’ll try to compress these five glorious days of game rides and just hit the high points. In my book I described the three safaris from my first backpacking trip, but these were quite different. They were luxurious! We still camped close to the animals, but the lodges were exquisite and the food four star. Our first day was filled with elephants of every size. It was fascinating to see the family groups, the wandering bowsers (or bachelors) and the big bull elephant who ruled the clan.

 

Just after we arrived at our thatched cabin, Martha came strolling onto the path with a banana. All of a sudden a velvet faced monkey came hurtling toward her. You never saw anyone drop a banana so fast! We were surrounded by the creatures and had to run for cover. Monkeys in Africa are cheeky. And baboons are the worse.

 

I think I took photos of every kind of tree in Africa—the jacaranda, acacia, sausage, candelabra, fig, wattle, and thorn, to name a few that were pointed out by our very knowledgeable guide, Agnol Malunda. But the baobab, with its many inhabitants, was the most outstanding, and says Africa to me.

 

The next two days we drove around the famous Ngorongoro Crater, which was formed when a giant volcano exploded and collapsed on itself three million years ago. The original volcano was as tall as Kilimanjaro, but the crater is now 2,000 ft. deep and its floor covers 102 sq. miles. The crater is host to 25,000 large animals, the highest density of mammalian predators in the world, and almost every individual species of wildlife in East Africa, including wildebeest, zebra, eland, and Grant and Thomson’s gazelles. It also boasts the densest known population of lions (though we had to search for them), leopards, waterbuck, cape buffalo, mountain reedbuck, African wild dogs, and dik-diks, which look like very tiny deer. We saw no black rhinos or leopards, but lots of zebras and wildebeests that make up the vast migrations in the rainy season.

 

I had lots of fun photographing ostrich families fleeing across the plain, wart hogs sitting in water holes, birds whose names I can’t pronounce, but look like varieties of brightly-colored storks, and hyenas, who like to dig a hole and sit in it for hours, peering out with dog-like faces. I plan to put some of these pictures up on facebook.

 

A fascinating stopover was the Olduvai Gorge (or Oldupai), a steep-sided ravine in the Great Rift Valley, which stretches along eastern Africa and through the crater. It’s one of the most important prehistoric sites in the world, considered the seat of humanity after the discovery of the earliest known specimens of the human genus, Homo habilis. We were lectured on the excavation work pioneered by Mary and Louis Leakey in the 1950’s, which furthered the understanding of early human evolution and is continued today by their family.

 

Every lodge where we stayed seemed grander than the one before. There was the Tarangire Safari Lodge, the Bougainvillia Lodge in Karatu, the Ndutu Safari Lodge on the edge of the Serengeti, and the most luxurious of all, The Ngorongoro Farm House, where a steaming washrag was given, upon arrival, to each dusty traveler. This was a far cry from my simple tent in southwestern Kenya’s Masai Mara in bygone days. No matter how grand these places were, however, you needed a guard to take you to your abode, since the animals were roaming not too far away. It freaked Martha out, but I found it exhilarating.

 

A word about the amazing Serengeti Game Park, famous for the thundering migrations of thousands of wildebeests during the rainy season. Just imagine animals running single file for hours across the plain, stopping now and then for water before continuing their journey. You wonder where all these animals come from and how they can flee so blindly that, when crossing a deep river, they drown their own by running over them. They are not known for their intelligence. Then add to this the tiniest of creatures, a Fischer’s Love Bird, clinging to a weaver bird’s nest or swarming around our cabin—an adorable creature the size of a hummingbird with iridescent coloring that would put a parrot to shame. Finally, picture dozens of slimy hippopotamus lolling in water that stinks beyond description, lifting their heavy bulk on stubby legs only to plunk back into the water with a grunt and a giant splash. Our videos are superb. Thank heaven they don’t record smell!

 

But the episode which delighted us on an early morning game ride was the spotting of a female cheetah and her three cubs. Our vigilant guide saw animals scattering, and sped across the plain to find what turned out to be this noble animal. We watched as she groomed her offspring, “instructed” them to stay by an acacia tree, and went forward in search of “breakfast.”

 

At the end of our safari we visited elephant caves and a majestic waterfall near Karatu on the edge of the Serengeti. This walk in the forest turned out to be anything but benign. Our guide, Gabriel Mao, was a doctor of traditional medicine, and proceeded to stop at every herb and plant, pointing out its uses for various diseases. We finally reached the caves, which had been created by elephants digging up the earth to ingest the vitamin-rich soil. The stream flowing at the bottom of the caves was also full of salty minerals and attracted other animals, like cape buffalo, waterbuck, and baboons. On our return, Gabriel noted fresh scat from the buffalos and elephants and suggested that we speed up, since it was getting late and the animals would return. Martha raced ahead and stopped short of the rear end of three huge elephants strolling down the path. We turned quickly and Gabriel calmly took our hands, leading us off the path, down an embankment, and deep into the woods. He then lit a cigarette, waved it so the smoke would rise, and started making loud elephant sounds that could curdle your brains. He walked back up to the trail, holding up his finger to check the wind and make sure our smell was reaching the animals. Soon he signaled for us to follow. You can imagine how fast we made it down, especially when faced with the possibility of meeting the world’s meanest animal, the cape buffalo. They are vegetarians, but will stalk and kill a human just for the sport. Not today, thank you.

 

Our final adventure was very special and very disturbing. It lingers with us still. We decided to add another day while Agnol was with us, and visit the Hadzabe tribe which lives south of the Ngorongoro Conservation Area. This entailed traveling over roads that were scarcely more than stream beds and far from any town. The people are the last remaining ancestors of the original hunter-gatherer tribes who first inhabited Tanzania, and their lifestyle has barely changed for millennia. It is said that they live as man did during the stone age.

 

If you read about the Hadzabe on line you will find reports pleading to leave these people alone and let them have their privacy. Efforts of the Tanzanian government to give them schools, medicine, and a window into the modern world failed in the 1970’s. But what we experienced that day made us wonder about all those reports.

 

When we arrived the older men had already gone hunting, so we were left with five young boys and one man. We had a second guide, from the Datonga tribe, who spoke the special language of the Hadzabe, similar in its click sounds to the San Bushmen of the Kalahari Desert of South Africa. We all followed behind at a fast clip as the boys, skilled hunters, darted and moved stealthily among the trees. They were dressed in scanty skins or old cut-off jeans and were light-skinned and slight. Their only weapon was a homemade bow and arrow, but they all had large knives stashed in their belts. A few of the arrows were poisonous, for use on baboons (the favorite meat) or larger animals.

 

For three-and-a-half hours we trailed these hunters. In that time the boys killed a squirrel, a large mouse, and a bird (they put an arrow through the nest). There were stops to climb a tree laden with sweet orange-red berries, which I tried, and to discover special roots and plants, which I didn’t try. After the boys made a kill they would smack the wriggling creature’s head on a branch or rock and secure it by the neck on their belt. When they decided to build a fire and eat their prey, they did it by fashioning a long stick and rotating it fast between their palms to produce smoke. While the fire was smoldering they put it in a small hole in dry dung and placed grasses on top. Over the fire they put the three animals, after taking most of the feathers off the bird. One boy rolled the small bodies in the dirt and removed excess charcoal before eating. Then he carefully ate the mouse tail as if it were a succulent piece of filet. And everyone shared in turn. Even the two dogs got the entrails.

 

On the way back Martha followed the older man and videotaped him stalking and killing a very large lizard buzzard. He shot his arrow through both wings and immobilized it. What a feast that will be!

 

When we returned, the men had come back from an unsuccessful hunt. They greeted us warmly, but did not have the enthusiasm, spirit, or alertness of the young boys. One boy was playing a native instrument fashioned from a gourd, while the men just sat and stared. Two toddlers, the only small children in the group, were standing shyly, their swollen bellies a sign of malnutrition. Agnol took out his large book of birds to find the name of the buzzard, and the boys gathered around, eagerly, as if they had never seen a book before.

 

The women had come back from foraging for roots, plants, and fruit. The males, of course, do the hunting and honey-gathering. They live in primitive round-tos made of woven grasses and sisal reeds covered with pieces of old cloth and animal skins. The women sat huddled together. They had no water, so we handed them two large bottles. With patience and gratitude they passed the bottles around, giving everyone a chance to drink. We asked our guide about the water and he said that this is a nomadic tribe that follows the animals, not the water. You wonder about disease and whether they ever get a chance to bathe. A Westerner has trouble seeing what looks to him or her like massive deprivation. The Hadzabe have no schools, do not know the ages of their children, and do not read or write, but they do know their natural surroundings well. I could only wonder what their future would be like.

 

There were only thirty in this particular group out of 25,000 remaining Hadzabe in Tanzania. Their livelihood is threatened by commercial plantations and encroaching farms, which create barriers along the seasonal migration routes of the animals upon which they depend for hunting. And tourists are also having an impact, with the introduction of marijuana and alcohol. We were very aware of this and careful not to give them anything except the water. But I also felt a sadness as we left. There is much food for thought in our experience with the Hadzabe.

 

Our final stop was at the Barabites, or the Datonga tribe. This is a group that broke away from the Maasai. We spent some time watching them melt down metals and old locks to fashion jewelry for the tourist trade. It was rather beautiful, with intricate designs etched on each piece.

Help me plan my trip

We learned a lot in our time in Africa. People were friendly, whether we were dining, climbing, or just walking on the street, exploring Arusha. I am also convinced that I am jinxed with British Air. This is the second time my bags have been lost in Heathrow. It took us four days to find them and they arrived just before we were to start our climb. I finally submitted a claim. It took me hours to unscramble the exchange rates and receipts. Martha convinced me not to charge for pain and suffering. She said it would be bad Karma. Oh well.

 

And as I discovered on my first world trip twenty-two years ago, I’ve never seen clouds as beautiful as in Africa…or sky so blue.

 

I have alluded to the organization who planned and carried out our trip,  Nature’s Gift Safaris, and its co-owners, Elizabeth Hudgin and David Mtui. www.naturesgiftsafaris.com This trip began as a family excursion with ten members, but, because of time constraints and money considerations, became a journey for Martha and me—a mother/daughter exploration. Even with our dwindling numbers, Elizabeth and David gave us top notch service and we enjoyed a full trek and safari at an incredibly reasonable price. It never felt like a tour. We were one-on-one with our guides, and we knew that no porter or cook climbing with us on the mountain was being exploited, as so often happens with large commercial outfits. When our climb was shortened, Elizabeth took us in tow and gave us a cultural experience in and around Arusha that was invaluable. David shared his expertise of the Chagga villages and the original thatched huts occupied by his generation of Chaggas. We wandered through the banana plantations and small farms, having tea with his relatives and learning about tribal and clan practices. What a raconteur David is! We felt as if we had found a family as well. And we became acquainted with the Tanzanian countryside in an intimate way…its waterfalls and dense forests; its farmers and trades people. Thank you, David and Elizabeth.

 

Just before we left for our belated flight home we met a Kenyan representative of British Air who, like so many, wanted to talk about Obama. He was ecstatic when he heard that we had worked on his campaign, and even managed to get us an upgrade to business class because of the rough time we’d had with our baggage. He gave us quite a description of the Luo Tribe of which Obama is one of the clans. He said that they were among the most intelligent, articulate Kenyans, were great orators, and if you ever met one, you’d better not let him open his mouth or he’d beat you every time in an argument. Then he said that for years the Luo have been trying to get the best of the Kikuyu tribe, whose most famous leader was Jomo Kenyatta, but they could never beat them and win the presidency. “But,” he said, “You Americans managed to do it!”

 

If we were to distill the essence and spirit of our trip, aside from the humanitarian activities we observed and the fine people we met, our mantra would be: Hakuna matata (no worries) and pole pole (slowly). We give you these important lessons to examine in the face of stressful life in these United States.

 

It wouldn’t be my blog if I didn’t give an update on NY theater for visiting firemen…and women. This addiction will continue through 2009 and I have decided not to fight it. If I want to write another play I need to see as many as I can. How’s that for rationalization? Highlights of the year so far are Mamet’s Speed the Plow with the excellent Norbert Leo Butz and Raul Esparza in a tour de force of ensemble acting. And nobody beats John Lithgow who was outstanding in Arthur Miller’s All My Sons. I was lucky to see it just before it closed. A newcomer, in previews, with the incomparable Mercedes Ruehl and Lily Rabe is Richard Greenberg’s American Plan.  More on the cultural front after I defrost. It’s cold in New Jersey. But I’ll stick it out…no trips planned for awhile.

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